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Hi BSG: I’ve met the most incredible girl the world has ever seen. We’re not going out and as current it’s sort of online (we live in the same country-met through mutual friends) but I’m on holiday currently. I’m absolutely head over heels for her. She is EXACTLY the same as me that’s what made me fall for her and my ex gf (I’ve had one) was the complete opposite to me and that’s where I feel it didn’t work out (I had my heart broken but we don’t need to go there).
Her views on life are almost identical to mine, we share the same views on issues such as parties and alcohol and by God she’s the most incredible person I’ve ever seen. This is the first time in my life I ever fell for a girl online and within the first day, it usually takes me month to like someone. It’s so difficult because I really want to come back from her holiday and i mean she’s incredible i would I’ve half my body to be with her we’ve become very close she calls me her bffl and puts lots of love hearts (she went through a bad break up I’m trying to help her recover) I just really want to be with her i really want this to work she’s got to be the most amazing girl I’ve seen and I’m so worried that when i get back she might not like me the same way and it would hurt so please give me some advice on how i could make this work i don’t even want this girl for sex or anything i just want to be there for her and become her bf she’s really the most incredible girl I’m 20 and she’s 19 so please get back to me any support would be much appreciated. ~Freaked Out by New Love~
Dear FONL: The Bitter Single Guy took a stab at correcting your lack of punctuation and capitalization because he’s…well…he’s just that way. But after a few moments, the BSG decided that your random run-on enthusiasm was way more informative about your current feelings than a bunch of pesky (albeit accurate) punctuation.
FONL, this is awesome for you! And for Perfect Girl! But the BSG can tell you from experience (SO much experience) that this giddy feeling isn’t going to last, even if you’re with Perfect Girl for the rest of your life. So stay on your holiday, but keep sending the texts. Later, when the passion and excitement has died, you’ll look back on these giddy texts and shake your head, wondering how you could ever have been so naïve [BSG takes a drag from a cigarette and shakes his head regretfully].
When you get home, you and Perfect Girl will begin the “OhMyGodYouTOO!” phase of your relationship, which is always fun. But be prepared for the excitement to fade, although really FONL…no one really wants to feel (or write letters) as hectically as you’re doing right now, do they? Good luck, brother. The BSG is on your side and wants you to feel ALL the feelings.
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