Comments on: Avoiding A Rebound Relationship

By: BSG

BSG — Tue, 13 Apr 2010 15:30:00 +0000

Howdy HTBAM: Welcome to friends from Sweden! The BSG loves his global reach.

Regarding your question about staying out of the friend zone; the BSG wonders if there is a woman (or women?) who wonder the same thing about you? The BSG has noticed that the pattern of us chasing people who are chasing other people usually also means that someone is chasing us that we're not even aware of.

Short answer: staying out of the friend zone usually requires casting a broader net.

~BSG~

By: How To Be A Mack

How To Be A Mack — Sat, 27 Mar 2010 18:13:10 +0000

Hey everyone, greetings from Sweden. This is a helpful site. Does anyone have any advice about staying out of the friend zone with women? Honestly I’m sick of girls telling me they just want to be friends. Maybe I’m being too much of a nice guy?

By: Don't Want to Bounce

Don't Want to Bounce — Tue, 09 Mar 2010 07:10:18 +0000

I’m not sure who you’re asking but I don’t think anyone would deny that it’s okay for you to email this to your friends, Daniel.

By: Daniel White

Daniel White — Fri, 05 Mar 2010 23:30:49 +0000

This is simple and easy to read. It was layed out in such a way that even a 6 year old can understand what is going on. Is it ok if I email this to some of my friends?

I’ll be waiting for your reply.

By: Tiffany

Tiffany — Sun, 14 Feb 2010 21:31:45 +0000

There’s much more involved in the “rebound” concept than the possibility of “punishing” the new partner for the old partner’s crimes. The more serious concer is choosing a new partner for the wrong reasons: loneliness, because your ego is suffering, because he reminds you of your old boyfriend (or because he’s NOTHING like your old boyfriend and that’s really your primary criteria right now). Not to say that any of those things necessarily apply to the OP, but there’s much more in play than just bitterness.