Been Given the Runaround
Dear Bitter Single Guy: My query is in relation to a girl I met a couple of months ago. She is over 4 years older than me and I am 26. I know that she was married a few years ago but her husband left her for another woman, this does not bother me in the slightest, however I believe she has a totally different view on relationships/men now. I have been keeping in contact with her and she has been ringing me late at night.
Over the past month I have stayed over at her place, however no sex occurred nor was instigated. It all seemed to be going well, however recently she has given me the cold shoulder and I feel a bit used. Now anytime I text her I get a one word/blunt reply. My question is what do I do now, or is it something I did. ~Getting The Runaround~
Dear GTR: This is easy for the Bitter Single Guy to say, but won’t be easy to hear. Your Jilted Jewel is using you for her rebound relationship. She’s taking control of her bruised heart by stringing you along and reclaiming her power in a relationship.
This relationship is over. Don’t text her anymore, not even to get the last word (it’s SO tempting to get one last zinger in there before you go dark, the BSG knows). If you are her rebound relationship, she’ll probably just go dark herself. If however, she actually likes you and is just being evil and controlling about her affections, then you going dark will get her attention and let her know you’re not to be trifled with.
But GTR we both know that this is actually over. ~BSG~
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