Comments on: Boyfriend Loves Porn More Than Me http://bittersingleguy.com/boyfriend-loves-porn-more-than-me/ Humorous Advice From a Guy Who's Been Dumped Once Too Often Wed, 09 May 2012 15:33:59 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: PaperTowels http://bittersingleguy.com/boyfriend-loves-porn-more-than-me/comment-page-1/#comment-4142 PaperTowels Mon, 08 Aug 2011 13:35:28 +0000 http://bittersingleguy.com/?p=507#comment-4142 You can drift his attention by doing something special. Put on something sexy that you normally don't do. This will surprise him and completely throw him off of his feet. Capturing his attention is very important in a relationship. Keep his attention by showing him what hot and sexy is. If you do it enough constantly, he will eventually just only be attracted to you only.   You can drift his attention by doing something special. Put on something sexy that you normally don’t do. This will surprise him and completely throw him off of his feet. Capturing his attention is very important in a relationship. Keep his attention by showing him what hot and sexy is. If you do it enough constantly, he will eventually just only be attracted to you only.
 

]]> By: Ashley Madison Have An Affair http://bittersingleguy.com/boyfriend-loves-porn-more-than-me/comment-page-1/#comment-3570 Ashley Madison Have An Affair Sat, 15 Jan 2011 23:14:38 +0000 http://bittersingleguy.com/?p=507#comment-3570 I'm entering the dating world after being in a LTR for the past three years. Just browsing the net and came across your post. I appreciate the tips and suggestions :) I’m entering the dating world after being in a LTR for the past three years. Just browsing the net and came across your post. I appreciate the tips and suggestions :)

]]> By: Maria http://bittersingleguy.com/boyfriend-loves-porn-more-than-me/comment-page-1/#comment-2538 Maria Tue, 16 Nov 2010 09:11:45 +0000 http://bittersingleguy.com/?p=507#comment-2538 I have the same problem. Errr. He always watch porn when I leave his house already. If I want to have sex, "uhm tomorrow, im tired." or "im not in the mood." BUT sometimes when he wants oral I give it to him expecting him to have sex after but no its like winning a sweepstakes when he honors his promise of us having sex. When I satisfy him and I start saying excitedly "ok my turn" he'll say "promise tomorrow" its always tomorrow. Then I'll discover that after an hour sucking his... he stills watch porn...........i feel neglected and REJECTED. I argued with him about his somewhat addiction to it that it makes me feel insecure and makes me think that I aint enough then his respond is that "its normal, every guy does it." Ok granted (maybe) BUT what he cant get is, i also need satisfaction. And i feel awful when i really wanna do it with him but shooos me away. I cant feel that he's still into me when it comes to sex but tells me that he loves me. We'll have sex when he wants it (w/c is once in a blue moon) OR when i promise to oral him. Errrr i need help. >.< I have the same problem. Errr. He always watch porn when I leave his house already. If I want to have sex, “uhm tomorrow, im tired.” or “im not in the mood.” BUT sometimes when he wants oral I give it to him expecting him to have sex after but no its like winning a sweepstakes when he honors his promise of us having sex. When I satisfy him and I start saying excitedly “ok my turn” he’ll say “promise tomorrow” its always tomorrow. Then I’ll discover that after an hour sucking his… he stills watch porn………..i feel neglected and REJECTED. I argued with him about his somewhat addiction to it that it makes me feel insecure and makes me think that I aint enough then his respond is that “its normal, every guy does it.” Ok granted (maybe) BUT what he cant get is, i also need satisfaction. And i feel awful when i really wanna do it with him but shooos me away. I cant feel that he’s still into me when it comes to sex but tells me that he loves me. We’ll have sex when he wants it (w/c is once in a blue moon) OR when i promise to oral him. Errrr i need help. >.<

]]> By: yyy http://bittersingleguy.com/boyfriend-loves-porn-more-than-me/comment-page-1/#comment-1331 yyy Mon, 29 Mar 2010 01:46:05 +0000 http://bittersingleguy.com/?p=507#comment-1331 I dont think it has anything to do with your weight gain. SERIOUSLY, I dont. I'll tell you why. I dated a guy addicted to porn,m and I was skinny when I met him. I had gained maybe five pounds total after I met him. Then I lost five pounds. Most men are not horrified by women that are five pounds overweight, or have gone from 130-135 pounds. My guy was. WHy? Because he was constantly watching pictures of completely skinny 18 yer olds, and porn gave him completely unrealistic standards as well as a total incapacity to even get it up with a normal woman. Yes, you are not perfect, but most men can get physically excited by women that dont look like supermodels, except for the ones with mental issues. My opinion is that you should just ditch him. He is getting emotional validation from you and sexual validation from porn. You are getting neither. Once you leave him he will still be getting sexual validation from porn but outside of a relationship, it will be clearer to him how pathetic this is. If he solves this problem on his own, you can get back together. But not before he appreciates your true value. Good luck. Btw, I didn't marry my porn guy. And am happier without him. I dont think it has anything to do with your weight gain. SERIOUSLY, I dont.

I’ll tell you why. I dated a guy addicted to porn,m and I was skinny when I met him. I had gained maybe five pounds total after I met him. Then I lost five pounds.

Most men are not horrified by women that are five pounds overweight, or have gone from 130-135 pounds. My guy was. WHy? Because he was constantly watching pictures of completely skinny 18 yer olds, and porn gave him completely unrealistic standards as well as a total incapacity to even get it up with a normal woman.

Yes, you are not perfect, but most men can get physically excited by women that dont look like supermodels, except for the ones with mental issues. My opinion is that you should just ditch him. He is getting emotional validation from you and sexual validation from porn. You are getting neither. Once you leave him he will still be getting sexual validation from porn but outside of a relationship, it will be clearer to him how pathetic this is. If he solves this problem on his own, you can get back together. But not before he appreciates your true value.

Good luck. Btw, I didn’t marry my porn guy. And am happier without him.

]]> By: aReDdCouch http://bittersingleguy.com/boyfriend-loves-porn-more-than-me/comment-page-1/#comment-1255 aReDdCouch Tue, 23 Feb 2010 05:01:41 +0000 http://bittersingleguy.com/?p=507#comment-1255 I applaud BSG for the suggestions. Usually there is only one suggestion for this and its lose weight, 'watch porn with him and maybe you'll like it,' etc. I like how she is given the option that if she really wanted to stay with this guy and he was once attracted to her at a smaller size that she should lose the weight. I don't find that insensitive at all because if that is the preference of her Porn Boy then she would have to comply if she wants it all to work out. But I love the option that she can dump him. Giving women options when they feel like they have none is appreciated---it provides clarity.     I applaud BSG for the suggestions. Usually there is only one suggestion for this and its lose weight, ‘watch porn with him and maybe you’ll like it,’ etc. I like how she is given the option that if she really wanted to stay with this guy and he was once attracted to her at a smaller size that she should lose the weight. I don’t find that insensitive at all because if that is the preference of her Porn Boy then she would have to comply if she wants it all to work out. But I love the option that she can dump him. Giving women options when they feel like they have none is appreciated—it provides clarity.
 
 

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