Dating Youngsters
Dear Bitter Single Guy: I have a penchant for younger men. They seem attracted to me and are more fun than the older versions, but they are aging babies with childish temperaments. As a member of the independent woman club, I know that I chose this for myself. So I was dating this one guy for a few months. Great romance – dinner, good kisser and respectful, then he just up and started a racecar hobby and stopped calling me. Most confusing thing I have ever stumbled on. Still doesn’t call me but whenever he sees me out he gets upset if I don’t speak to him. What now? Traded for a Racecar
Dear TFAR: The Bitter Single Guy is pleased whenever one of his readers admits to a potentially damning predilection and just takes pride in it (like your appreciation for the younger set). For example, the BSG himself has on occasion thrown caution to the wind and has approached the Very Hot. Interestingly, acquiring the Very Hot wasn’t nearly as challenging as the BSG thought. Keeping one of them turned out to be quite a different story however. (sigh)
All that TFAR, besides the BSG wanting to demonstrate his studliness to his readers, is to say ‘bravo for hanging with the youngsters!’ The good news is that Racecar Boy’s behavior is typical in relationships between any age groups.
Racecar Boy wants the elusive Friends-After-We’ve-Dated relationship and he wants to make sure it’s completely on his terms. Which is to say that he isn’t going to call you or act like an actual friend, but he’s going to expect you to fawn all over him when he sees you simply because you may have swapped a few bodily fluids (the BSG is referring mostly to spit here, but he realizes there could be others and swears he is not judging you).
Tell Racecar Boy to cram it. If he just stopped calling you with no explanation of his departure, he can stand to be a little upset when he’s snubbed by you in public. ~BSG~
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