Comments on: Fairytale Romance, Outsiders Don’t Approve.

By: BSG

BSG — Tue, 05 May 2009 14:16:34 +0000

All is indeed well…busy in all the right ways. Thanks much for checking BCG.
~BSG~

By: Bitter Coupled Gal

Bitter Coupled Gal — Fri, 01 May 2009 20:24:47 +0000

BSG – hope all is well in the bitter world?

By: Chelle

Chelle — Wed, 29 Apr 2009 23:52:31 +0000

I have to agree that the only thing you can do is ignore and sadly probably lose those friendships with those who have problems with it. Hopefully some of them eventually will come around,, but I wouldn’t bet on it or lose sleep over it. I like Steve’s idea of having fun with the racist jerks you encounter…being able to find humor in the situation can be a good way to deal with it.

By: Andie

Andie — Wed, 22 Apr 2009 16:30:43 +0000

Darlin, some people are just plain dumb. Your relationship brings nothing but love and good things, and if anyone, ANYONE AT ALL, has an issue with it, then it really is *their* problem and not yours.

That said, it as hard to have to deal with the flack from other people’s internal damage. My X-husband was Pakistani and I am as white-bread american as they come. I had to deal with very little (nothing really) from my friends and family, but it was common to get nasty looks and stupid comments from total strangers. I personally take comfort knowing that I not only don’t have to take it, remember it, or judge it, but that somewhere at sometime they will get their come-upance and will be very aware of having been so uncouth.

I hope you find fullfillment and happiness in this relationship, and that you are able to enjoy yourself inspite of the terrible thing others do.

By: QueenOfRelationships

QueenOfRelationships — Fri, 17 Apr 2009 21:42:52 +0000

I would throw a chicken bone at anyone who told me any of these things. I think anyone who says these sort of things are probably miserable and bitter people.