Dear Bitter Single Guy: I meet someone online. It started as friends then we started talking about the future. He asked me to marry him. Take note: We were not in relationship. Just flirting. He keeps asking me to marry him every day. Eventually, I joked, “Sure. Lets skip the bf-gf thing and go direct to marriage”.
After that I love you’s were swapped occasionally. Like I said, This is long distance. We talk about anything. He confide to me all his innermost thoughts about family and all. We made plans. Then he went cold. Day later, He confessed that he slept with someone else and that He love me. Sex was nothing. I was furious. Deleted him and stopped talking to him.
He chased me back. The I love you’s and pleading got into me so I gave in and give him another chance. Week later he told me he’d marry me and he will love me forever. Two days later he told me he has a new gf and it’s not serious. I said ok. I blocked him and let go.
Almost a month later, he message me that he was sorry. He said that I am a very special person and unique blah blah. I didn’t reply. Two weeks after that I added him back in fb. I saw his in relationship status. Days after the add, his gf name appear on the said stat. I got a bit angry so I changed my relationship stat to in relationship to a friend. It was a fake relationship.
Weeks later, I changed my stat to engaged for a few hours then change it back to in relationship. Other friends congratulate me for the said “engagement”. Next day, I check in at a cathedral. He must also have read the post saying that I’ll be spending christmas to my fake bf friend. Then I found him online in msn for two days. He has no other friend other than me. I didn’t said hi. I didn’t even greeted him at his bday.
Next day I read on his fb that he is married with his post that he is happy and can’t wait to start a future with his wife. I posted belated happy bday. He blocked me. I emailed him saying he doesn’t need to blocked me just coz he is married. Next day, He deactivated his fb. His gf or wife deactivated her fb too but before that I saw her changed her lastname to his lastname.
The thing is, back when we were together. We also fooled around and made our fb relationship stat to married. I don’t know for sure if he is married for real but one thing is for sure I am still not over him.
What should I do? Do you think he is happily married? Does he love me still? I need your brutal honest. HELP!? Thanks in advance. ~Facebook Diva~
Dear FD: Are you kidding the Bitter Single Guy with this crap? This guy cheats on you, dates someone else, MARRIES someone else and you’re not sure what you should do so instead you get all passive-aggressive on Facebook by faking your own relationship status and friending-unfriending him? The BSG wonders what you think is going to happen if this all “works out”…do you think after all this madness that any sort of relationship would be anything but a nightmare? The BSG wants you to back away and have no more contact with Facebook Man. Otherwise, you both deserve what you get. ~BSG~