http://bittersingleguy.com/roommates-and-relationships/ Humorous Advice From a Guy Who's Been Dumped Once Too Often Wed, 01 Feb 2012 23:53:22 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 http://bittersingleguy.com/roommates-and-relationships/comment-page-1/#comment-178 RR Thu, 18 Dec 2008 16:25:08 +0000 http://bittersingleguy.com/?p=347#comment-178 The problem is that I feel I have to protest... Regardless of how obvious this may be to many of the people around us and how obvious it occasionally seems to me, this is not something that seems to have hit him yet.  I can't make someone see something they don't and I wouldn't want to try to.  We have a great (albiet admittedly strange) friendship and rely on each other a lot.  I don't know what I would do if I lost that.  We both realize there is a physical aspect to our friendship as well as a comfort level and visible dynamic that is more relationship like in nature, but the possible reason for that doesn't seem to click with him.  To be honest, it didn't click with me when I wrote this and I'm still not sure it does.  The problem is that I feel I have to protest… Regardless of how obvious this may be to many of the people around us and how obvious it occasionally seems to me, this is not something that seems to have hit him yet.  I can’t make someone see something they don’t and I wouldn’t want to try to.  We have a great (albiet admittedly strange) friendship and rely on each other a lot.  I don’t know what I would do if I lost that.  We both realize there is a physical aspect to our friendship as well as a comfort level and visible dynamic that is more relationship like in nature, but the possible reason for that doesn’t seem to click with him.  To be honest, it didn’t click with me when I wrote this and I’m still not sure it does. 

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