The Bitter Single Guy’s Relationship Advice

Signals: Mixed, not Stirred

Dear Bitter Single Guy: I recently started dating this guy…I am a tall girl and he is a little bit shorter than me which always seems to pose some threat to men.  We have been dating three weeks and I really like him, but he continually tells me that I’m not the usual type he goes for; but he isn’t mine either. 

When we were just talking like on the phone and/or texting we had a real connection but yesterday he said that he wasn’t sure if we had a connection.  He confuses me, I mean I know he loves to hang out with me especially since every time after we hangout he text or calls about how much fun he had and how happy he was to see me. 

I am so confused with him…I mean it seems like he really likes me but I def don’t want to hear about other girls thinking he is hot…maybe he just wants to make me think he is wanted and that I am lucky to be with him or something like that.  What do I do about all these mixed signals…I hate games and don’t like when guys play them. ~Getting Mixed Signals~

Dear GMS: Where did you find this gem? He’s told you you’re not his type, told you that you don’t think there’s a connection, and tells you how hot other girls think he is?

The reason he’s sending you mixed signals is that he doesn’t have the cojones to actually shit or get off the pot (look that reference up…it’s relevant, the BSG swears). He’s hoping that you’ll dump him because that’s much easier than taking responsibility for himself. Give him what he wants, GMS. Dump his sorry ass until he can figure out how to tell you that he feels a connection with you, he hopes you think he’s hot, and you’re his new type. ~BSG~